Friday, January 07, 2011

Knitting Update – 1/7/2011

Now that Christmas is over and everyone has opened their gifts, I can show what I’ve been working on for the last few months.

 

1. For my mom, I did a Mobius shawl with a fringe out of a really nice wool/silk fingering weight yarn.

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2. For my sister-in-law, I made the same shawl, but in a different color and with beads on the edge instead of a fringe.

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3. For my dad and brother, I made some basic gloves in DK wool using a pattern from the American Red Cross Production Corps, a section of the Red Cross that, during World War II, provided yarn and patterns for folks at home to make gloves, socks, hats, and vests for servicemen.

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4. For my 3 year old nephew, I made a set of hand puppets using a kit from KnitPicks.  The kit actually made 6 puppets, but I only did 4.

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5. For my 8 year old nephew, I made a set of 4 juggling balls.  I just made a cube out of three different colors and filled them with plastic pellets.  In addition, Rosie Girl let me videotape her giving instructions for how to juggle and we made a DVD to send with the juggling balls.

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6. It wasn’t a Christmas present, but I made stockings for me and PWM since our other ones are rather cheap ones and don’t have any sentimental value.  This was my first time doing colorwork, and I LOVED it!

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7.  Again, not Christmas gifts, but these are some pictures of hats made for a friend who lost her hair from chemo.  (Rosie Girl is the model for the pink cloche.)

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8. With my extra DK weight yarn, I made myself a pair of socks – using a “pattern” I made up on the fly.  I’m pretty proud of myself!

 

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I also made a pair of socks for PWM, but didn’t take a picture of them.  Sorry.

What crafty things have you been up to?  Leave me a comment and link!

        

 

 

Saturday, January 01, 2011

Book Reviews – 1/1/2001

What better way to start the year than with book reviews?  Hope you enjoy!

Forbidden Fruit: Sex and Religion in the Lives of American Teenagers by Mark Regnerus – I loved this book.  Of course, it says something about my my academic background that I enjoy reading books about sociology.  I am fascinated by this topic, especially since I used to have a number of young women in my practice whom I was treating for sexually transmitted infections and whose babies I delivered.  I really want my own kids to delay sex until marriage for medical as well as religious reasons.  I’ve seen the devastation that early and frequent sexual activity can wreak.  But, is the Church being effective in helping our teens make good choices?  This book tried to answer this question, among others.  The author showed that abstinence pledging by teens, despite being a sacred cow of Evangelicals, is simply not very effective.  It appears that the teens who are least likely to be sexually active and to have fewer partners are those with high personal religiosity levels.  It appears that the “programmatic” approach to the problem of teen pregnancy taken by many churches has failed us.  So, what is the answer?  There’s not a simple one, but we need to get past the naivete of thinking that kids who are involved in youth groups will automatically “wait for marriage”.  Our churches and families would do much better to focus more on helping our teens develop a closer walk with Jesus with less focus on “good behavior”.  A

The Victims Return: Survivors of the Gulag Return after Stalin – by Stephen Cohen – Millions of people were sent to the “Gulag Archipelago”, a network of prison/work camps scattered across Siberia, during the reign of Josef Stalin.  Many of them died, but many returned home to try to reintegrate into Soviet society.  I read this book knowing almost nothing about the USSR after Stalin, so it was highly educational on that front.  What made it a good read, though, was the stories.  The author writes about a variety of people who were in the Gulag for varying amounts of time, but focuses on their life after the Gulag.  They had to deal with the memories of the Gulag, but also with fitting into a society that was changing.  Definitely worth reading.  A

The Whale Rider by Witi Tame Ihimaera – I had heard of the movie, “The Whale Rider”, but didn’t know much about it.  When Wild Man was studying Australia and New Zealand, we needed another read-aloud, so I chose this.  And I’m very glad I did.  The whole family enjoyed the story of the girl who was not loved by her grandfather because she wasn’t a boy.  By the end of the book, though, the girl has shown that she is the next “Whale Rider”.  A

The American Evangelical Story by Douglas Sweeney – This was a good overview of the history of Evangelicals in America.  It was very good to see how the Evangelical denominations shaped and were shaped by the development of this country.  Definitely a good read, especially if you enjoy social history.  A

Jesus Freaks: A True Story of Murder and Madness on the Evangelical Edge by Don Lattin – I was looking up the Jesus Freaks book by D.C. Talk, but this one came up in the list.  I just couldn’t resist checking it out.  It’s a true story about a cult that is only tangentially related to Christianity.  It was a pretty good book.  B

Jane Austen in Scarsdale by Paula Cohen – This story takes the general plot of Persuasion by Jane Austen and transposes the story to Scarsdale, NY.  The main character is a guidance counselor in a high school in an affluent area who is constantly dealing with difficult parents and anxious students as she tries to help her students navigate the college admission process.  The real fun begins when her ex-boyfriend moves into town with his sister and her son, who is a high school student.  And, if you’re a Jane Austen fan, you know where the plot goes from there.  Yes, it’s formula, but it’s a nice, pleasant read.  B

Poison: A Novel of the Renaissance by Sara Poole – A young woman becomes the “poisoner” to Cardinal Borgia in the days before the pope dies and the Cardinals must go into conclave.  Not only is the poisoner required to protect Borgia during this time, but she also learns a secret about her father that leads her to try to prevent the expulsion of the Jews from the city.  Well-written, intriguing plot.  A

Alone: Orphaned on the Ocean (audio) by Richard Logan – In the early 1960s, the Duperrault family from Green Bay, WI chartered a boat and captain to take a trip through the Bahamas, with the idea of eventually purchasing their own boat.  However, things went terribly wrong.  A few days after the boat was last seen in the Bahamas, the 6 year old daughter was found in the open ocean floating on a styrofoam float.  The girl was terribly dehydrated and required hospitalization.  The story that she told while in the hospital was one of murder and her desperate struggle to survive.  The perpetrator, the boat captain, answered an inquiry about the loss of a boat, but then committed suicide, apparently because the little girl survived.  This story tells not only about the 6 year old girl, Tere, but also the family and the boat captain.  Absolutely fascinating.  A

The Spellmans Strike Again by Lisa Lutz – I just love the Spellman series by Lisa Lutz.  In this installment, Izzy Spellman is taking over the family business, but also trying to put up with a series of blind dates set up by her mother, dealing with phone calls from her favorite octogenarian from Florida, and asking the family why random bits of the house (like door knobs) keep disappearing.  It’s another hilarious and funny installment.  Definitely read it!  (Warning: Language alert – Not safe for kids!)  A

From Asparagus to Zucchini – This is a cookbook produced by the Madison Area CSA Coalition.  It’s an alphabetic listing of the veggies that are likely to show up in your CSA bag along with suggestions on how to store, clean, and cook them.  I highly recommend it.  A

So, go check out a book from the library and get reading!

A New Year, A New Headache Plan

With the start of a new year, I’ve decided to try something else to try to decrease these headaches.  I’m going on a significant elimination diet.  I’ve tried gluten-free, no MSG, and no chocolate or caffeine diets separately without success.  However, it may be that there may be some food items that are “partial” triggers – by themselves they don’t cause a headache, but several of them together can cause headaches.  I already know that multiple triggers are more likely to give me migraines than a single trigger which is what convinced me that this might be helpful.

So, what am I eliminating?  A better question to ask is what am I allowed to eat!  I figure that if foods are causing problems, my headaches should definitely improve with a couple of weeks on this diet.  If that happens, then I have to do the much more complicated task of sorting out which foods are problematic.  Basically, I can have chicken, white rice, apples, grapes, broccoli, carrots, and a few other veggies.  I’ll also be taking a multivitamin.

I think the worst thing on this diet is going to be boredom.  How many different ways can you cook such a limited kinds of food?  And without things like onion, garlic, and soy sauce?  On the up-side, PWM will be taking care of meals for him and the kids.  At least I won’t be trying to cook food that I can’t eat.

So, it could be an interesting few weeks.  I’ll try to keep the whining to a minimum.  Pray for us.  We’re going to need it!

Hello, 2011

Welcome, 2011.  You’ve finally made it here.  Our family said good-bye to 2010 by sitting together in the living room listening to an audiobook.  Not a real big send-off.  I know that I, along with the rest of the family, grew and learned a lot over the course of the year, but I’m happy to have it behind us.

What do you have in store for us, 2011?  There are very few things we can be sure of, and I’ve given up my habit of planning life down to the detail.  Nonetheless, we can expect that Rosie Girl will take Driver’s Ed in the spring so that she can get her driver’s license in the summer when she turns 16.  And we are looking forward to Wild Man becoming a teen-ager.  In the meantime, PWM and I will continue our stroll through our forties.

I’m excited for the new year, really, I am.  Watching Rosie Girl and Wild Man grow up is such an amazing thing!  I’m still praying that God will see fit to take away the headaches.  And, just to make sure we’re covering all the bases, I’ll start the year with a strict “migraine diet”.  (Thankfully, PWM can cook so the rest of the family won’t be subjected to rice, chicken breasts and a few veggies for the first several weeks of the year!)

But, 2011, if you are bringing some surprises, you should know that I’m not going to be alone in tackling them.  Jesus said, “Lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the earth.”  (I memorized the verse in the KJV while I was in elementary school, and I kind of like how “Lo” sounds.  Very old-fashioned.)  So, 2011, I’m starting the year with the Creator of the Universe with me, the One who “has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, and of love, and of self-discipline.”  Not only that, but PWM and I are as close as two people can be and I have other friends with whom I share my life.  2011, I’m not facing you alone – I have lots of love, support, and help for whatever you are going to bring.

Welcome, 2011.  Let’s make it a great one!

Friday, December 31, 2010

7 Quick Takes Friday – 12/31/2010

It’s the last day of 2010, so I decided to make this post seven memorable events of the last year.

1. Our year got off to a rough start with Rosie Girl recovering from a tonsillectomy.  The surgery went well, but a week after the surgery, Rosie Girl developed bleeding from the tonsillar fossae.  So, we got to go back to the hospital so they could cauterize the bleeding spot.  After that procedure, all went well and she is now happily tonsil-free!

2. I re-covered the cushions to one of our rocking chairs.  Why is this memorable?  Because it involved sewing.  ‘Nuff said.

3. Rosie Girl went on a school choir trip to Washington D.C. (without me or PWM).  She had a blast and enjoyed being with her friends.

4. Wild Man and I visited my parents in Florida in May.  It was great to just hang out with them for several days.

5. Wild Man and Grandma took a long road trip – from Florida to California to Wisconsin.  They had a great time and have really gotten closer to each other.

6. My family (parents, brother and his family) came up here for a week for a mini-family reunion.  We rented a cabin on a local lake for the week so we could all be together.

7. Grandma (PWM’s mom) started renting the house next door to us.  She still has her house in Florida, so she will divide her time.  She left to go back down South right before Thanksgiving and we expect her back in a couple of weeks.  We have really had a great time with having her so close.

Check out 7 Quick Takes Friday to see what others  have been up to!

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

After-Christmas Activities

Christmas day has come and gone.  The gifts are all open.  Since we used gift bags and boxes instead of wrapping, the clean-up was quick.  So, what have we been doing with our week off?

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See these cool items – the Elder Wand for Wild Man and a Welsh Love Spoon for me?!  PWM carved them by hand for us.  The “Elder Wand” was made from a stick that PWM found outside.  He used stain on the “bumps” to provide some contrast.  The Welsh Love Spoon pattern was from a website and is carved from bass wood.  He is soooo talented!  These were all made before Christmas, so PWM has spent his time catching up on everything else!

 

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I decided the other night to unravel a sock that I had made that was entirely too small.  Unfortunately, the techniques I used in making the sock made it difficult to unravel.  So, I sat at the table with loupes (magnifying glasses) on while I tried to unravel the sock and then wind the yarn into a ball.  And I did NOT know that PWM was going to take a picture of me!!  (And the sock is still not completely unraveled.)  Right now, I’m making myself a pair of socks with some leftover yarn.  Then I’ll be working on some projects for some of my cousin’s kids who live in Minnesota – a place where wool is definitely appreciated!

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Wild Man loves his Lego Hogwarts Castle.  Of course, you can see in the second picture that he felt the need to “improve” it by adding guns to the roof!

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And here is Wild Man demonstrating his Nerf dagger and shield.  Yes, he loves the camera!

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Rosie Girl has been wearing one of the hats from my brother and sister-in-law pretty much every day since Christmas.  The hat is brown and has a flower appliqué of a couple of different kinds of fabric.  While wearing her hat, Rosie Girl has been spending some time on the computer watching her new DVDs, making electronic “songs”, and writing stories. 

Rosie Girl and her friend went sledding yesterday.  PWM went out today to Grandma’s yard to try to blow some snow into a mini-sledding hill, so Wild Man got to play on that hill some today.  I’m hoping to get my cross-country skis out soon. 

I’ll post pictures of my Christmas knitting in a week or so.  I had made projects for my brother and his family and we mailed them the Saturday before Christmas.  Unfortunately, I had given PWM the incorrect zip code to put on the box.  PWM contacted the post office and either they redirected it or the error was somehow magically fixed and the package arrived at my sister-in-law’s family’s house today.  But, the package came after my brother’s family had already left to go back South.  It’s getting mailed to them at home, so they will hopefully get their presents next week sometime!

 

So, how are you spending your time this week?  Any fun projects or plans, or are you just relaxing?

Christmas Simplicity

I talk a good line when it comes to simple living, but I have a much harder time actually “walking the walk”.  I want our family life to be calm and relaxing, yet find myself encouraging the kids to be involved in lots of activities.  During the Christmas season, I find myself trying to “do” all the Christmas traditions – baking, decorating, going to parties, etc. – even though it goes completely against my dream of a more “simple” holiday.

This year, though, I think we finally had a simple Christmas.  Yes, it was largely brought about by a very long-lasting headache, but the end result was good.  I wasn’t involved in any Christmas cookie exchanges, so I only baked a couple of times during the holidays, and then just for our family.  I had started my Christmas knitting very early, so the packages were all ready to send a full week before Christmas.  This left me with more relaxing projects right around Christmas because it wasn’t critical that they were done by a certain time, thus lowering my stress level.  We certainly didn’t spend any more on Christmas this year than we usually do, and I suspect that we may have spent less.  PWM, Rosie Girl, and Wild Man did all the wrapping of gifts that were being mailed.  I only wrapped one present for the four of us here at home.  Otherwise, we used gift bags or Christmas boxes.  (Note: We don’t put our Christmas gifts out until after the kids go to bed.  I’m not sure they are old enough yet to have the temptation of an untaped box or gift bag for several weeks set before them!)

Overall, we had a great Christmas.  On Christmas Eve, Rosie Girl and PWM played with the worship team at church and Wild Man just generally helped out.  I went to the first Christmas Eve service and then had some extra time to finish straightening the house before everyone got home.  Christmas morning started at around 7:30 (I love that my kids are getting older).  We spent all Christmas Day just hanging out and playing with our Christmas gifts.  Wild Man took most of the day to put together his Lego Hogwarts.  Rosie Girl watched some movies while I read my books and PWM used his new carving tool.  We planned to go to the assisted living facility where our former neighbor now lives (as of a couple of weeks ago), but when I called to inquire, they said that he was out for the day.  Yay for him!

Tonight, we had our Christmas dinner.  I made a roast with mashed potatoes and gravy, dressing (savory bread pudding), and shredded and buttered carrots.  PWM made sure that the table got cleaned off and the food put away and I finished cleaning the kitchen.

I think we succeeded!  We met all our holiday commitments, but managed to stay relaxed and not overly busy.  Now, to do this next year without having a headache to force it on us!

Monday, December 27, 2010

Book Reviews – 12/27/2010

In the last few months, I’ve listened to three books by Lisa See (on mp3 while I knit).  I have to say that she is one of my favorite authors.

Shanghai Girls – This novel tells the story of two sisters who grew up in Shanghai during the 1930s, but are forced to leave when the Japanese reach the city.  They had both been married to Chinese men who lived in Los Angeles, so they make their way from Shanghai to Hong Kong to San Francisco and then on to Los Angeles.  The rest of the story is about the sisters and their husbands’ family’s life in Chinatown.  The author does an excellent job of developing believable characters and drawing the reader into the setting.  I learned quite a bit about Chinese culture and the persecution faced by the Chinese at the hands of our government in the mid-twentieth century.  A

Snow Flower and the Secret Fan – Snow Flower and Lily are two girls growing up in medieval China who become “old sames”, life-long friends with a ceremony performed when they are children.  We watch them grow up, get their feet bound, learn to perform household tasks, and even learn “women’s writing” (since women were supposed to be illiterate).  The story continues through their marriages as one moves up in society and the other down.  Again, the author has given us characters with whom we can sympathize and shows us a part of Chinese society that most of us would never learn about otherwise.  A

Peony in Love – This is the least “conventional” of the three Lisa See novels that I have read.  Peony, a girl engaged to be married, becomes enamored of a man she believes that she cannot have because of her engagement.  She then becomes obsessed with “The Peony Pavilion”, a popular opera.  This story takes place in the 17th century and explores deep emotions and women’s desire and need to express themselves.  We see the contrast between the reality of women being relegated to the “women’s chamber” and the desire of the women themselves to be heard by the outside world.  A

In addition to enjoying the books themselves, I liked listening to them being read by Janet Song.  Whether you choose to read them or listen to them, I think you’ll find it worth your time.

 

 

Sunday, December 26, 2010

Things That Make Me Happy

I thought it might be fun to share some things that are making me happy these days.  You are encouraged to leave comments with what makes you happy!

1. Watching Wild Man play with his Lego Hogwart set, especially now that he’s starting to integrate his other characters into the Harry Potter world.

2. Listening to Rosie Girl play piano or ocarina.

3. My snuggie.  Yes, I was a “snuggie snob” until Rosie Girl gave me one for Christmas last year.  I have to be honest and say that it’s just wonderful, if a bit staticky.

4. Harry Potter books – I just finished Harry Potter and the Goblet of Fire again.

5. Audiobooks on my mp3 so I can listen while I cook, clean, or knit.

6. Yarn – I think I knit just so I can enjoy the feel of the  yarn.

7. My neck heating pad.  PWM doesn’t like the smell of the herbs, but I just like that it warms me up and loosens up those muscles.

8. Books – Books as a general concept make me happy.  Specifically, I’m reading/listening to several novels as well as some non-fiction books.  But, no self-help (even of the “Christian” variety).

9. My Bible – The Bible as a concept makes me happy – God’s Word for us to read is an amazing thing.  But, I’m also happy with the Thompson Chain Reference NIV Bible that I got from my parents in high school.  I’ve learned, though, not to try to read the Bible for answers to life’s problems, but rather to read it to become immersed in God’s story.

10. For a round even ten, I’d have to say that chocolate makes me happy.  Whether it’s in ice cream. cookies, or candy, I like it.  Of course, I can’t eat it all the time and I need to include a decent amount of veggies and protein.  But, a little bit of chocolate goes a long way!

Your turn: what makes you happy today??

Book Reviews – 12/26/2010

In the Land of Believers by Gina Welch - Here's another look at Evangelicalism from an outsider who went "undercover".  Gina Welch pretended to be a Christian to be able to more closely observe conservative Christians at Thomas Road Baptist Church (the church founded by Jerry Falwell).  There is a whole discussion to be had about the ethics of how she inserted herself into this group of people, but that's for another day.  Ms. Welch takes the reader through her own journey of distrust toward Christians to a deeper understanding of (at least) this particular group of Evangelicals.  She never converts but does make some real friendships in the singles' group that she joins.  Her final conclusion is that we would all do well to make an effort to get to understand each other.  Ms. Welch came away from the experience with more understanding of Evangelicals and less of the contempt with which she started.  I would have liked to read more of her thoughts about the Single’s ministry and her perspective of women in that section of Evangelical culture.  A-

I Am Hutterite by Mary-Ann Kirby - This is a pretty good book about a family that is raised in one of the tight-knit Hutterite communities in Canada but chooses to leave.  The author does a nice job showing the advantages of communal living but also the disadvantages, particularly as regards authority structures.  The family's struggle to fit in to a world that they don't understand and that doesn't share their values is well-described.  An enjoyable book.  B

I Still Dream About You by Fannie Flagg - My review: Another pleasant read from Fannie Flagg. The story revolves around a real estate agent and former beauty pageant winner in Birmingham, AL. As usual, Flagg gives us a cast of characters that we can care about as well as an engaging plot.  B

The Hunger Games by Suzanne Collins – I hesitated to read this series at first because the premise was so depressing: in a futuristic North America, the government requires each province to choose one boy and one girl to compete each year in The Hunger Games, a to-the-death competition which is televised (and required viewing) in all the provinces.  Only one boy or girl can win.   But this year, Katniss takes the place of her sister, whose name is chosen in their province, and competes (with and against Peeta, a boy from the province) in the Hunger Games.  The games, designed to show the provinces the strength of the Capitol, test the nerves, skill, and resourcefulness of Katniss and Peeta.  They also test their character as only one person can win.  A very well-written book that quickly drew me in to the plot.  The characters are well-rounded, so I would love and dislike them by turns.  I strongly recommend this books for high schoolers.  I think it’s rather graphic and dark for younger kids. A

Catching Fire by Suzanne Collins – This second book in the Hunger Games trilogy is another stand-out in the young adults category.  The character(s) from the Hunger Games who survived are given the usual honors and awards, but then are in for a big shock when the time comes for next year’s Hunger Games.  Again, I was impressed with the depth of the characters.  The plot was very edge-of-your seat – I was completely surprised at the ending.  And, for good measure, there’s some romance – of course, it’s romance complicated by the politics of the Hunger Games.  A

Mockingjay by Suzanne Collins – I listened to this conclusion of the trilogy on audiobook.  My daughter didn’t like the reader, but I actually did.  In any case, this book tells the story of the aftermath of the Hunger Games and the subsequent civil war.  Some of the characters are calling the shots, while Katniss is questioning what her role should be.  The climax of this book was, again, a complete surprise.  But, everything was brought together in a satisfying dénouement.  This was a good conclusion to a very strong series that prompts the reader to consider the role of the state in the lives of it’s citizens.  A

With Friends Like These by Sally Koslow – From the author of The Late, Lamented Molly Marx comes another light, entertaining novel.  The story follows four close friends who had shared an apartment when they were younger.  Now they are getting older, having children, advancing their careers, etc., but not without some strain.  The four women consider themselves close friends, but selfishness and deception rear their ugly heads.  How they resolve the actions motivated by their selfishness and deceit provides plenty of fodder for the plot.  The characters are a little flat, but the story moves quickly and is worth the couple of hours it takes to read it.  B

The Late, Lamented Molly Marx by Sally Koslow – This entertaining read is told in flashbacks from the perspective of the deceased Molly Marx.  Molly was a young mother who lived an upper class life in Manhattan.  When she was killed while on a bike ride, she thought she had it all: a good marriage, a lovely daughter, and an up and coming career.  However, as she reviews the events of her life, she realizes that all was not how it seemed.  Definitely a light read, but pleasant.  B

I hope to post more reviews later in the week.  I’ve listened to a number of books on mp3 while I was knitting this year,  so I’ll review those as well.

 

 

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Christmas 2010

It’s late afternoon on Christmas Day.  We’re all sitting around enjoying our gifts and getting some much needed rest.  For your enjoyment, I present the highlights of Christmas 2010.

  • Last night, PWM and Rosie Girl played with the worship team for the Christmas Eve service and did a great job!

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  • The Christmas Eve service included various sections of scripture read by one of the staff members while it was acted out by a small group of people.  Between these dramatic pieces were interspersed songs and Christmas carols.  Then our pastor preached on Simeon.  It was beautiful.
  • I finished the new Christmas stockings for me and PWM!

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  • Wild Man has spent pretty much all day setting up his new Lego Hogwarts set.

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  • Rosie Girl was quite happy with her tickets to see Wicked in February!

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  • PWM got all creative this year – he made a wooden spoon for me, an Elder Wand (from Harry Potter) for Wild Man, and crocheted juggling balls for Rosie Girl.

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  • Wild Man also got a Mind Flex game – the other played it this afternoon while I was taking a nap.
  • I gave the rest of the family a Mythbusters game that we’re going to break out after dinner.
  • With all the Harry Potter stuff, we’ve all taken to speaking with British accents!
  • Rosie Girl got a set of Full-Metal Alchemist DVDs and a pocket watch (from one of the FMA characters).
  • Wild Man gave each of the three of us a painted wooden box with a set of coupons – mine are for “reading out loud”, “dishwasher”, “rub” (i.e. my feet or my back or my neck), and “breakfast in bed”.  I think I’m going to enjoy the next few months.
  • For good measure, here’s a picture of the four of us – all dressed up at the same time!

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Hope that Christmas has been wonderful for you and your family!!

Sentimental or Scandalous?

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I collect Nativity sets – I think I had twenty-something at last count.  I have resin, porcelain, glass, wood, and cloth Nativity sets.  The all contain the Holy Family – Mary, Joseph, and the Baby Jesus.  Some have a couple of shepherds and animals.  Others also include 3 Magi (well, one has 2 Magi, but I don’t think that was intended).  One thing they all have in common is that they are sentimental.   They use stock images of the characters to convey the story of the Nativity to us.  Mary is always beatific, looking lovingly down at her son in the manger (who do you know who looked that good right after childbirth?).  There are a few shepherds looking a little scruffy, to be sure, but then again, we can’t smell them.  The Magi look exotic and majestic as they bring their gifts to Jesus (although they almost certainly weren’t in Bethlehem, but visited the family in Nazareth).  These Nativity sets are all beautiful and a nice reminder of the fact of Jesus’ coming to earth, but the emotions they evoke are more sentimental than anything else.

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When you think of Christmas, what emotions come to your mind?  If you are like me, you get “warm fuzzies” about this season – the gifts, visiting with family, the smell of warm gingerbread.  We’ve spent the last four weeks immersed in Christmas music and, in this house, making Christmas gifts.  Most Christmas movies talk about Christmas being a time of giving and a time of family.  You truly have to be a hard-hearted Scrooge (pre-Christmas ghosts) in order to not have some nice positive emotions this time of year.

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In reality, though, Christmas is not sentimental, but scandalous.  It was a scandal, first, because God humbled (humiliated?) himself enough to actually become like His creation.  He went from the perfection of Heaven to the difficult life of first century Palestine – and as a member of a working class/poor family, not the nobility or clergy as you might expect.  In no other religion is there a claim that God became human.  (Sure, the ancient Greeks did tell some stories of gods disguising themselves as humans, but that was generally just to cause mischief.)  Other religions admonish their adherents to work hard to earn their god’s favor.  Christianity is different, though, in that God became human.  He started as a little baby and grew up into a man.  He did all the things that humans do – including the bodily functions that “nice people” don’t talk about in public (although, as a physician, I think I’m exempt from that clause).  And, while humanity may be the pinnacle of God’s creation, we are still a huge step down.

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Some have tried to say that God didn’t actually become human; that it was too much to expect that God would become like us; that it was a scandal.  The Council of Nicea took up the question in 325AD and concluded that “And in one Lord Jesus Christ, the Son of God, begotten of the Father [the only-begotten; that is, of the essence of the Father, God of God], Light of Light, very God of very God, begotten, not made, being of one substance with the Father.”  Even today, groups like the Jehovah’s Witnesses claim that Jesus was a created being and, thus, inferior to God.  Yes, God becoming human was scandalous.

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The Incarnation was scandalous also because it was not how the Jews pictured the Messiah coming.  The first-century Jews in Palestine were living under Roman rule with Herod the Great as their puppet.  The Jews expected that the Messiah would come and liberate them from their oppression.  Jesus was totally not what they expected.  When he preached a gospel of love and peace and sacrifice, the hearers were scandalized!  This could not be the Messiah who would save them from Roman Rule!  But God had a different plan – one that involved Jesus paying for our sins once and for all.  Not only that, Jesus showed us how we could live; He is the ultimate example.  Without Jesus (God incarnate), we would still be lost in our sins.  The Incarnation was God’s greatest gift to humanity.

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While we can enjoy the sentimental feelings of this season, we also need to remember the scandal of the Incarnation.  God became human to pay for our sins and to show us how to live.  God blew everyone’s expectations out of the water to give us what we so desperately need.  As you see the sweet baby in the manger, remember that He is God become human just for us.

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Merry Christmas!!